What if we told you that we can help you transform your relationship into a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’ within 30 days?

What if you could experience endless supplies of intimacy, connection, love, fun, adventure, safety and fulfilment together?

You’re right where you need be!

‘1% Love’ is the type of love shared between lovers which makes people think:

“How in the world do they seem so in love?”

“How are they so connected and in tune?”

“What do I need to do to have a love like that?”

It’s the type of love which survives, thrives and flourishes no matter the storms, tests or trials.

‘1% Love’ is the byproduct of a mutual commitment to ‘having it all’ in your relationship - a Sacred Union which generates endless supplies of intimacy, connection, fun, adventure and fulfilment together.

You can experience this type of love.

THE 1% LOVE SCORECARD

Assess your relationship's current vitality in five key areas - we'll show you in 5 minutes or less.

Our simple quiz can help you become really clear so that your relationship gets focus in the right place.

What if we told you that we can help you transform your relationship into a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’ within 30 days?

What if you could experience endless supplies of intimacy, connection, love, fun, adventure, safety and fulfilment together?

You’re right where you need be!

‘1% Love’ is the type of love shared between lovers which makes people think:

“How in the world do they seem so in love?”

“How are they so connected and in tune?”

“What do I need to do to have a love like that?”

It’s the type of love which survives, thrives and flourishes no matter the storms, tests or trials.

‘1% Love’ is the byproduct of a mutual commitment to ‘having it all’ in your relationship - a Sacred Union which generates endless supplies of intimacy, connection, fun, adventure and fulfilment together.

You can experience this type of love.

THE 1% LOVE SCORECARD

Assess your relationship's current vitality in five key areas - we'll show you in 5 minutes or less.

Our simple quiz can help you become really clear so that your relationship gets focus in the right place.

What is

The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™?

This proprietary method has been created and curated through and from the many discoveries we have made in our two-decade relationship — the peaks and troughs, ups and downs, tests and trials, tears and pain.

We became the guinea-pigs so you don’t have to.

We went through the vicious-cycles so you don’t have to.

This method is the very medium and mechanism through which you will transform your relationship into a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’.

This method is based upon what we call the Sacred Union Secrets of ‘1% Love’.

Sacred Union Secrets

FOUNDATION: Values, Needs, Desires and Commitments 

FORESIGHT: Taking Responsibility 

FOCUS: Active Listening 

FAMILIARITY: Habits and Rituals

FEELING: Mindfulness and Emotional Connection 

FUSION: Sexual Connection

FORGIVENESS: Separating the Problem from the Person 

FUN: Playfulness and Novelty

Your Pathway To A Sacred Union Of ‘1% Love’

During this 30-Day pathway, we will assist you with re-engineering your relationship to the degree that it transforms so significantly that you will SEE and FEEL the difference.

But not only that… 

…others will see the difference, too. 

And they will wonder how.

This pathway comprises a series of key components.

Day One

The 1% Lovers Intimacy Advancement Meter

On Day One, you will complete the Intimacy Advancement Meter in order to assess your current relationship satisfaction level; this is designed to give you a clear snapshot of where your relationship stands vs what it will look like at the end of the program — it will help you assess and measure your relationship’s growth over the next 30 days.

It will clarify where you and your lover currently are, allow you to quantify your progress, and enable you to celebrate your achievements at the end of 30 days.

Two Core Programs

The 1% Lovers Platinum Guidance Program™

In this powerful 1-2-1 program, you will participate in three one hour Platinum Guidance Sessions where the unique dynamics and nuances of your relationship will be filtered through the ‘1% Love’ lens and a bespoke pathway will be created for you to follow. 

This program includes:

The 'I Choose You' Lens, The Mantra Formula, The GIRAF Framework, The Harmonious Bonding Technique

The 1% Lovers 30-Day Virtual Transformation Program™

This dynamic program consists of thirty short daily video lessons (including love assignments) which empower you to re-engineer your relationship and transform it one simple step at a time, one day at a time.

Module One

Foundation and Familiarity

Uncovering Your Relationship Foundation: 

In Module One, you'll start by exploring the foundational secrets of a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’. This includes identifying your core values, needs and desires through introspective exercises and open dialogues with your lover. The key takeaway is understanding the core principles that your union is built upon.

Establishing Familiarity and Unity:

You'll establish shared rituals and set meaningful goals together. These rituals will connect you on a profound level and your shared aspirations will infuse unity and purpose into your Sacred Union. The key takeaway is creating habits and goals that strengthen your bond.

Module Two

Foresight and Forgiveness

Responsibility for Growth: 

Taking responsibility is a key skill you'll develop in this module. You'll recognise that even challenging conversations are opportunities for growth and deeper understanding. You'll no longer avoid difficult topics, but rather embrace them as stepping stones to intimacy.

The Art of Forgiveness: 

Forgiveness is a central theme. You'll discover the transformative power of separating problems from your lover. This involves addressing issues without blame, practicing empathy, adopting a growth mindset and using effective conflict resolution strategies to promote forgiveness and rekindle your connection.

Module Three

Feeling and Fusion

Mindful Embrace of Emotions: 

This module is all about nurturing emotional intelligence and mindfulness. You'll develop the practice of being present, recognising and validating emotions and freely expressing your feelings and needs.

Igniting Passion and Intimacy: 

Explore the art of fusion, which revolves around building and enhancing your sexual connection. You'll engage in open conversations about desires, engage in sexual exploration and prioritise intimacy both inside and outside the bedroom.

Deepening Connection: 

Focus on emotions and fusion aims to weave a richer, more vibrant connection between you and your lover. It's about understanding, respecting, and responding to each other's evolving needs and desires, fostering a deeper emotional and physical bond.

Module Four

Focus and Fun

The Art of Active Listening:

 

Module Four is all about honing the art of active listening. You'll transform your conversations into sacred spaces where attentive listening will be common place. The key takeaway is the ability to truly comprehend your lover's perspective without judgement, creating a safe and open dialogue.

Reviving Fun and Playfulness: 

In the realm of freshness, you will inject new life into your relationship. You'll regularly plan and enjoy fun, shared activities that bring delight. Infusing humor and light-heartedness into your interactions becomes a cornerstone. The key takeaway is embracing spontaneity and shared experiences that build joy and strengthen your unique bond.

Strengthened Connection and Joy: 

As you progress through Module Four, you'll experience a harmonious blend of focused understanding and the effervescent infusion of fun and playfulness. The key takeaway is a stronger connection with your lover, filled with laughter and joy as you continue your journey together.

Module 5

Fulfilment

In this final module, we bring together each of the 8 Sacred Union Secrets and consolidate the lessons in Modules 1-4.

Day Thirty

At the end of the 30-Day period, you will revisit the Intimacy Advancement Meter and rate your current relationship satisfaction once again.

You will compare your score on Day 30 with the projected % increase you made on Day 1 to determine if you've achieved your desired result.

Result Analysis: 

Based on your Day 30 assessment, the meter will indicate whether you've met or exceeded your desired % increase or if there's room for further growth.

Enhancement Resources

The 1% Lovers Remedy Resources™

In this powerful resource, you will have access to over ten hours of intimacy alchemy guidance from us as we expound upon the first five Sacred Union Secrets in a series of previously recorded live group sessions with a selection of couples during our 5-Day ‘Catalyse Your Love Connection’ Challenge and the VIP Experience. 

This will enhance your clarity for the ‘1% Love’ mindset and will enable you to immediately put your learning into practice.

The 1% Lovers Midnight Menu™

Whether you're looking to spice up your sex life, build intimacy and trust, or simply have fun and be playful with each other, this menu has something for every ‘1% Lover’.

The activities range from sensual meditation and massages to more adventurous options like role-playing and even some food play. Each activity is designed to be enjoyable, explorative and safe for both lovers.

What is

The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™?

This proprietary method has been created and curated through and from the many discoveries we have made in our two-decade relationship — the peaks and troughs, ups and downs, tests and trials, tears and pain.

We became the guinea-pigs so you don’t have to.

We went through the vicious-cycles so you don’t have to.

This method is the very medium and mechanism through which you will transform your relationship into a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’.

This method is based upon what we call the Sacred Union Secrets of ‘1% Love’.

Sacred Union Secrets

FOUNDATION:

Values, Needs, Desires and Commitments 

FORESIGHT:

Taking Responsibility 

FOCUS:

Active Listening 

FAMILIARITY:

Habits and Rituals

FEELING:

Mindfulness and Emotional Connection 

FUSION:

Sexual Connection

FORGIVENESS:

Separating the Problem from the Person 

FUN:

Playfulness and Novelty

Your Pathway To A Sacred Union Of ‘1% Love’

During this 30-Day pathway, we will assist you with re-engineering your relationship to the degree that it transforms so significantly that you will SEE and FEEL the difference.

But not only that… 

…others will see the difference, too. 

And they will wonder how.

This pathway comprises a series of key components.

Two Core Programs

The 1% Lovers Platinum Guidance Program™

In this powerful 1-2-1 program, you will participate in three one hour Platinum Guidance Sessions where the unique dynamics and nuances of your relationship will be filtered through the ‘1% Love’ lens and a bespoke pathway will be created for you to follow. 

This program includes:

The 'I Choose You' Lens, The Mantra Formula, The GIRAF Framework, The Harmonious Bonding Technique

The 1% Lovers 30-Day Virtual Transformation Program™

This dynamic program consists of thirty short daily video lessons (including love assignments) which empower you to re-engineer your relationship and transform it one simple step at a time, one day at a time.

Module One

Foundation and Familiarity

Uncovering Your Relationship Foundation:

 

In Module One, you'll start by exploring the foundational secrets of a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’. This includes identifying your core values, needs and desires through introspective exercises and open dialogues with your lover. The key takeaway is understanding the core principles that your union is built upon.

Establishing Familiarity and Unity:

You'll establish shared rituals and set meaningful goals together. These rituals will connect you on a profound level and your shared aspirations will infuse unity and purpose into your Sacred Union. The key takeaway is creating habits and goals that strengthen your bond.

Module Two

Foresight and Forgiveness

Responsibility for Growth: 

Taking responsibility is a key skill you'll develop in this module. You'll recognise that even challenging conversations are opportunities for growth and deeper understanding. You'll no longer avoid difficult topics, but rather embrace them as stepping stones to intimacy.

The Art of Forgiveness: 

Forgiveness is a central theme. You'll discover the transformative power of separating problems from your lover. This involves addressing issues without blame, practicing empathy, adopting a growth mindset and using effective conflict resolution strategies to promote forgiveness and rekindle your connection.

Module Three

Feeling and Fusion

Mindful Embrace of Emotions: 

This module is all about nurturing emotional intelligence and mindfulness. You'll develop the practice of being present, recognising and validating emotions and freely expressing your feelings and needs.

Igniting Passion and Intimacy:

 

Explore the art of fusion, which revolves around building and enhancing your sexual connection. You'll engage in open conversations about desires, engage in sexual exploration and prioritise intimacy both inside and outside the bedroom.

Deepening Connection: 

Focus on emotions and fusion aims to weave a richer, more vibrant connection between you and your lover. It's about understanding, respecting, and responding to each other's evolving needs and desires, fostering a deeper emotional and physical bond.

Module Four

Focus and Fun

The Art of Active Listening:

 

Module Four is all about honing the art of active listening. You'll transform your conversations into sacred spaces where attentive listening will be common place. The key takeaway is the ability to truly comprehend your lover's perspective without judgement, creating a safe and open dialogue.

Reviving Fun and Playfulness: 

In the realm of freshness, you will inject new life into your relationship. You'll regularly plan and enjoy fun, shared activities that bring delight. Infusing humor and light-heartedness into your interactions becomes a cornerstone. The key takeaway is embracing spontaneity and shared experiences that build joy and strengthen your unique bond.

Strengthened Connection and Joy: 

As you progress through Module Four, you'll experience a harmonious blend of focused understanding and the effervescent infusion of fun and playfulness. The key takeaway is a stronger connection with your lover, filled with laughter and joy as you continue your journey together.

Module 5

Fulfilment

In this final module, we bring together each of the 8 Sacred Union Secrets and consolidate the lessons in Modules 1-4.

Day Thirty

At the end of the 30-Day period, you will revisit the Intimacy Advancement Meter and rate your current relationship satisfaction once again.

You will compare your score on Day 30 with the projected % increase you made on Day 1 to determine if you've achieved your desired result.

Result Analysis: 

Based on your Day 30 assessment, the meter will indicate whether you've met or exceeded your desired % increase or if there's room for further growth.

Enhancement Resources

The 1% Lovers Remedy Resources™

In this powerful resource, you will have access to over ten hours of intimacy alchemy guidance from us as we expound upon the first five Sacred Union Secrets in a series of previously recorded live group sessions with a selection of couples during our 5-Day ‘Catalyse Your Love Connection’ Challenge and the VIP Experience. 

This will enhance your clarity for the ‘1% Love’ mindset and will enable you to immediately put your learning into practice.

The 1% Lovers Midnight Menu™

Whether you're looking to spice up your sex life, build intimacy and trust, or simply have fun and be playful with each other, this menu has something for every ‘1% Lover’.

The activities range from sensual meditation and massages to more adventurous options like role-playing and even some food play. Each activity is designed to be enjoyable, explorative and safe for both lovers.

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Imagine if...

…you had a blueprint for revitalisation and transformation so definite that no matter what happened circumstantially you would keep on growing together.

This is what The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™ is designed to do.

It is designed to be a blueprint towards deeper intimacy, a stronger connection, and a love that burns brighter than ever before.

The transformation of your relationship into a Sacred Union of ‘1% Love’ is yours to have within the next 30 days.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™?

The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™ is our proprietary method for transforming relationships into Sacred Unions of ‘1% Love’. It's a holistic system based foundationally on our 8 Sacred Union Secrets and is designed to empower couples to cultivate deep love, connection, intimacy, fun, adventure and fulfilment in their relationships.

How does Intimacy Alchemy work, and can it really transform our relationship?

Intimacy Alchemy involves personalised guidance, tools and exercises to empower couples to take all situations, challenges or circumstances (much like the alchemists of old would take base metals) and use each of them to deepen their intimacy and connection (turning them into gold or other precious metals). It requires a deep level of introspection and accountability for one’s actions in order to sit in the driver’s seat of one’s life and to be the most powerful version of oneself possible. Yes, it can transform and, in fact, WILL transform your relationship

Is The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™ suitable for couples at any stage of their relationship?

Yes, our programs are designed for couples at various stages, whether you're newly together, facing challenges or seeking to enhance an already strong relationship.

Do you offer individual guidance in addition to couples?

Although there is a significant self-developmental aspect to our guidance, where the individual certainly can, and will, transform their way of being and doing, we only currently work with couples.

How do your pricing options work, and what is included in each package?

We offer three packages which include various elements. Details can be found in our pricing brochure. If you would like to peruse these pricing packages, contact us at intimacy@thespoonerstate.com to receive your copy.

What results can couples expect after completing your programs?

Couples can expect Sacred Unions of ‘1% Love’ - this means more clarity, improved communication, deeper emotional connection, enhanced intimacy, more fun and fulfilment together than ever before. The exact outcomes vary depending on the couples’ input but we are committed to ensuring, and do everything in our power to ensure, the realisation of the couples’ desired results.

Are your sessions conducted in person or online?

Our sessions are conducted online, allowing for flexibility and accessibility for clients worldwide.

How can I get started with The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™?

To begin your transformative journey, complete The 1% Love Scorecard Quiz to assess the current vitality of your relationship; once your quiz is completed, and you have received your results, you can then apply to work with us. Get started with your assessment at score.the1percentlovers.com

What sets The 1% Lovers apart from other relationship coaching services?

Our unique approach, The 1% Lovers Transformation Method™, focuses on the holistic development of both individuals and their relationships. This isn’t relationship coaching per se. It is Intimacy Alchemy, based upon the study of ourselves over the past 20 years together; a system for transformation inspired by our real life experiences, refined through many trials, and tested on ourselves time and time again. It is a structured pathway leading those who put it to work to Sacred Unions of ‘1% Love’.

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